Another Pot Found Their Lid!

​When I was in college, my Granny Brown used to tell me, "There's a pot for every lid." At the time, I smiled, nodded, and tucked it away with all the other little bits of grandmotherly wisdom I wasn't quite old enough to appreciate. It sounded sweet, but I didn't really understand it. Then this morning, a dear friend reminded me of those words, and I realized Granny Brown has been quietly shaping STEAM in the PARK all along.

Every summer, educators arrive from every corner of the country. Some walk into camp talking to everyone before they've even unpacked. Others quietly slip into the back of the room, hoping no one notices they're wondering if they belong. Some teach preschool. Others teach chemistry, physics, or high school history. Some have attended several camps. Others pull into the parking lot thinking, "What have I gotten myself into?" Every one of them carries a story. Every one of them carries gifts. Every one of them is hoping—whether they'll admit it or not—that they'll find someone who sees them.

By the end of the week, something beautiful begins to unfold. The birder finds another birder. The artist helps the scientist notice beauty in a different way. The introvert discovers someone else who doesn't mind long, quiet walks. The loud ones laugh together. The thoughtful ones linger over coffee. Somewhere between washing dishes, hiking a trail, paddling a canoe, sketching in a journal, or sitting around a campfire, strangers begin to feel like family.

This week, one of our campers pulled me aside and said, "Did you know that the camper I met last summer is now my best friend?" I smiled because I knew they live hundreds of miles apart. Just a year ago, they had never met. Now they talk almost every day. That's when Granny Brown's words came rushing back. There's a pot for every lid.

You know how Jimmy Stewart tells us in It's a Wonderful Life that every time a bell rings, an angel gets its wings? Well, around STEAM in the PARK, we have our own version. Every time someone finds their people, a pot gets its lid. And if that's true, we've filled an awful lot of kitchen cabinets over the past fifty camps.

The funny thing is, we spend months planning every detail of these weeks. We schedule hikes, organize lessons, prepare journals, gather supplies, coordinate meals, and pray over every camp. But there is one thing we cannot schedule: belonging. That is something that unfolds when people are simply given permission to be themselves. It happens in conversations we never planned, in laughter we couldn't have scripted, and in quiet moments that somehow become sacred. It grows almost like roots beneath a forest floor, unnoticed at first, until one day people look around and realize they've found home in one another.

I've watched those friendships become classroom collaborations, family vacations, prayer partners, wedding invitations, and people who show up for one another when life gets unimaginably hard. They didn't come looking for lifelong friends. They came to learn in a national park. Yet somehow, they leave carrying far more than field journals and photographs. They leave carrying one another.

Granny Brown was right. There really is a pot for every lid. Sometimes we spend so much of our lives trying to fit into places that were never meant for us that we begin to wonder if something is wrong with us. Maybe nothing is wrong at all. Maybe we're simply standing in the wrong kitchen. The right people won't ask you to become someone else before they welcome you. They'll simply be grateful you showed up.

I think that's one of the greatest gifts of STEAM in the PARK. Yes, we learn about glaciers, forests, birds, watersheds, and national parks. But beneath all of that, something even more important is taking place. Educators discover they don't have to perform, impress, or pretend. They don't have to be the funniest, the smartest, or the most experienced person in the room. They simply have to bring the person God created them to be. That has always been enough.

So every summer, I leave another national park believing what my Granny Brown knew all those years ago. Somewhere between the trail and the campfire, another pot found its lid.

Keep being a good human.